Category: The NEW me!

New Name, New Blog…same smart ass attitude.

So I’ve finally taken the plunge and got my own domain!  So what’s in a name?  I am FOREVER A CUPID.   I’m done with the bad relationship, horrific marriages and changing my name because of some dude.  I am forever me.   And now I have the blog name to prove it! I’m the …

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Ch-ch-ch-changing…..

So remember how I said I was going to start changing my style? Yup. I have truly started. I am loving me. I have always wanted to have a better personal style I’ve just never had the guts. I would love to say it was financial or because of my ex (it’s nice to blame …

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We Need to Talk….

“We need to talk.” Nothing strikes fear into a relationship like those four little words.  Many a couple has been brought down by that simple statement.  I swore up and down that I would rather stay single than be in a relationship where I was unable to communicate open and honestly with my partner.  I …

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Help the needy….

So I love my Cowboy.  He’s a rockstar in so many ways.  Our dryer broke the other day and before you could blink he had that son of a bitch in a million pieces, found the broken fuse thing a ma bob and had it up and running.  THAT my friends is dead sexy.  All …

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A Cowboy, yoga pants, Walmart and balls of steel.

As requested here is the story of how I met my Cowboy.  It’s funny, so many people say ‘when you stop looking’ or ‘when you least expect it’ but no one actually believes all that bullshit.  But it is true, in this case it is so very very true.  Look here’s my boyfriend!  i love …

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what is love?

So I have always sucked at love. I know it and now because of recent events in my life the world knows it.  I write this blog from the bottom of my heart,  I hold nothing back so there are many people out there who know my inner feelings that normally would not.   I’m …

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Dumpster Diving!

Ok, I’ll admit it, I’m a snob.  Wait, I should clarify, I USED to be a snob.  Since moving back from overseas I have changed.  I remember when we were selling everything before we moved I was astonished at how much ‘stuff’ we had.  I vowed that I would never again be a slave to …

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Pluto is NOT a planet…

Ok, so things have changed since I was in school.  The Soviet Union is no more, the Wall is down in Germany, Yugoslavia…finished.  I’m pretty up on world happenings so not much throws me for a loop.  Um, so how did I miss that Pluto is no longer a planet??? We are doing a unit …

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And the walls come tumblin’ tumblin’

              No matter the situation there is always cooking to be done.  Yesterday my wonderful next door neighbor invited me to take as much of her garden in as I wanted.  Her husband passed away a few weeks ago and her garden is overgrowing. Her middle aged daughter lives …

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Am I writing or am I a writer?

There have been many times in my life where I have dreamt of becoming a writer. Usually it’s while I”m driving in my car. I no longer have a car so now it happens when I’m on the train. Some days I don’t want update the blog, some WEEKS I don’t ‘feel’ like writing. Usually …

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